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How do I stop looking back and get busy building my future?

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17 January 2020, 11 hours ago (F age 36-40 - I’m at a bit of a crossroads in my life. I left a great job about 8 months ago - for all of the right reasons - but, my new role is not really great (or panning out). My family situation is OK but not where I want it to be - especially because I have a toddler at home and am ... (115 words

I'm trying to put myself in my boyfriend's ex's shoes and wonder why she's behaving the way that she is, but I can't imagine why

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17 January 2020 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend's ex is still in the picture but on the peripherals, and I'm finding it hard to understand why. I have tried, so I'm just going to put the facts, coupled with my thoughts, and would like anyone to give me their feedback on what they think, please. So my bf was w... (695 words

Is he trying to or currently cheating?

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17 January 2020, 3 hours ago (F age 22-25 - I am a little concerned as to whether my OH is in fact trying to or is currently cheating. Let me give you a bit of background. 6 years together. Engaged. Living together 2 and a half years, dog, cat, saving for house etc. He has cheated in the past and we have worked on t... (822 words

I've not met this girl, but we talk and I'm smitten!

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16 January 2020 (M age 30-35 - I want a lot of advice so I'm not sure this question will fall into a single category. I'm a 34 year old virgin - something that I'm not proud of but I guess that's life. I've been with girls and done stuff before and even without the sex I think I've been in love a few times. ... (420 words

My boyfriend treats me terribly, maybe I deserve it.

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16 January 2020 (F age 18-21 - Hi everyone, hoping someone can offer some advice.. I'm a 31 year old woman and I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He's the same age. He's been living with me for six months, around the same time he lost his job. It wasn't something we had discussed, he just brough... (796 words

A man I had sex with keeps ghosting me.

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16 January 2020 (F age 36-40 - Hi all So I really like this man who split from wife last year and now lives on own - we have had one night which was amazing about a month ago but nothing since . I’ve decided if he isn’t contacting me then he isn’t interested so have left it - then few days ago I ge... (188 words

Is it possible to have healthy relationships with family with mental issues?

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16 January 2020 (F age 30-35 - It has only been recently I’ve realized just how toxic my relationships are with my immediate family members. I’m having trouble knowing how to proceed with them now that I’ve had this realization. I’ve always been aware that our family is dysfunctional, and that our ... (1473 words

Is it wrong that I loaned my b/f money because I wanted to help him?

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15 January 2020 (F age 41-50 - Hello everyone. I need help figuring out something. My boyfriend and I both in early 40s. He has a full time job, teaches at a university but financially in trouble because of divorce and some business investments. He has a potential as he is an entrepreneur and incredibly ... (254 words

My FWB partner now wants to get serious with me but I turned them down

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15 January 2020 (F age 26-29 - Hi So I met a friend with benefits last summer, we both agreed we wanted nothing serious and were free to meet other people if we wanted to. We both really didn't want anything serious so this worked fine for us. As some time passed, i felt they were growing a bit a... (357 words

My live in boyfriend is allergic to my cats.

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15 January 2020 (F age 22-25 - Hello and thank you for any advice and opinions. I have a beautiful family of 5. My bf 3 cats ( midnight, xena, and princess) and a dog ( max). I have had my first cat midnight for about 4 years, my cat xena for about 3 years, my cats princess for 2 years and my dog max ... (233 words

I'm so embarrassed at the enormous crush that I have on my colleague!

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15 January 2020 (F age 26-29 - I'm so terribly embarrassed and I just need to get this off my chest. I can't tell any of my friends so I'm really just looking to confide in someone and for advice. I've had an enormous work crush on someone for about 9 months, who I've actually been 'work friends' with fo... (368 words

Did my boyfriend cross a line or did I overreact?

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15 January 2020 (F age 22-25 - Hello agony aunts, I broke up with my boyfriend about 1 month ago we didn't talk for 2 weeks and he was already dating and talking to other girls (I saw him in the university with them), he came back to me again and told me that he wants me back. I gave him another chance and I ... (358 words

Should my parents respect that I buy my own food and leave it alone?

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14 January 2020 (F age 22-25 - I don't know if I'm being selfish or not or if my parents are being assholes but I am 22 years old and I buy my own food because I am a diabetic, and can't have any of the food they provide so I buy my own. My wage isn't that great, I just have enough to save atleast $100 a ... (307 words

I am uncomfortable with my partner going to strip clubs. Should I go myself to see what goes on?

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14 January 2020 (F age 26-29 - I've recently had a conversation with my partner about strippers and lapdances. I told him it made me feel uncomfortable at the thought of it and it's inappropriate if in a relationship. I'm now wondering if maybe I've exaggerated it in my head and should check it out for ... (119 words

Hes retired but I'm not

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14 January 2020 (F age 41-50 - Hello, not sure anyone can help. I have been dating a man for 1 1/2 years who is retired and I still work full time. How can I stop feeling jealous and wondering what he's doing all day when im at work. I am insecure due to the fact at the beginning he wasn't over his ex ... (151 words

My boyfriend didn’t get me a Christmas gift, not even a card!

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14 January 2020 (F age 41-50 - Hello I have been dating a man for 1 1/2 years. We are both in our fifties. We have had our ups and down like most couples. And I have been very understanding with him and his issues, ex wife and ex girlfriend cheated on him and the passing of a child. This past christmas ... (365 words

I think my boyfriend lies about what he does when out with his friends.

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13 January 2020 (F age 30-35 - I suspect my bf is lying to me about his activities when out with his friends. We had a discussion before where he mentioned the sort of antics they get up to but he doesn't take part. I'm mostly concerned about his activities when they are going to strip clubs, which he openly ... (94 words

Why am I still afraid to make him mad?

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13 January 2020 (F age 41-50 - My ex kept calling every week. He called once or twice a week and would show up randomly. He always wanted sex. He didn’t really wanted to see our daughter. The last time he came over he said he still loved me and wanted to work it out. I have been struggling to get over him. I ... (108 words

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